Recently while we were having sex, my girlfriend asked me to fist her. We've used strap-ons, dildos, and of course, our hands — but never fisted, specifically. She is one of my first girlfriends, and I've never actually experienced this before I haven't done it, and I haven't had it done to me. I know that we're not talking about a literal fist-in-vagina situation here, but still, I'm nervous because I don't know what to do.
Vaginal Fisting Isn’t Just a ‘Porn Thing’ — Here’s How to Try It Out
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I almost fisted myself and now Im too ashamed to have sex! Is my vagina loose?
But the mechanics and implied violence turns people off, and so fisting has a stigma. But for many, the stigma is unwarranted and fisting is a joy. So, for the sake of fostering honest and stigma-free conversations around sex in all its variously human forms, we spoke to four people who enjoy it. Both giving, as well as receiving.
But what do you do instead? Her advice? So the idea of a woman penetrating another woman with her hand is often lost on mainstream media all together.